Bad boys

 "Bad boys" may win the games, but it is the "Good boys" that win the championships.

It is a well known fact that girl's hearts melt in the presence of the bad boys. Their confidence, rebelliousness attitude, adventurous, drama, dominance, risk taking, none conformity and manipulative ways get girls wet on a psychological perspective. Girls flock to these guys despite clearly disliking the characteristics of bad boys. But they can't help it, it is like the bad guys cast a spell on the girls. Nonetheless, it is the bad boys that get the girls.

The good boys, may I first clarify what I mean by "good boys". I do not mean simps, the nice guys who let girls manipulate and use them. No, not those losers. By good guys, I mean the type that has self respect, self control, are respectful to others, prioritize personal development, have empathy and are confident. Sorry simps. Yeah, so good boys usually have a rough start to the game. Girls do not really like them because they are not as fun, manipulative, do not spend money carelessly or are too busy building their future to have "fun".

But years later, the bad boys grow older but have nothing tangible. They can not form meaningful relationships due to their untrustworthy, insecure and monkey branching behavior. They are probably on some health wrecking addiction. They have multiple baby mamas screaming in their ears for child support. They are absent fathers and do not have a connection with their children.

Meanwhile, the good boys despite coming late to the party, prioritized on personal development and making meaningful relationships. They have a loving wife and kids. They are in good shape and health. They have a good career or business. Their life is more fulfilling and happier. 

It is like Arsenal vs Manchester United last season. We all know who won the games and who won a trophy.👋

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