1. It solves nothing since there is no talking about issues
2. It affects sexual intimacy leading to hard hearts in marriage. Love making soothes the union
3. It is a form of emotional abuse because your spouse feels imprisoned. It hurts when you share a bedroom and a house with someone who ignores you
4. It sets a bad mood in the house bringing about an unhealthy environment for the children
5. It makes you two drift apart since you get used to not engaging
6. It creates new issues thus complicating things further
7. It destroys unity and thus hindering blessings. Where there is unity, God commands a blessing
8. It demonstrates a form of childishness. Grown ups talk about matters no matter how difficult
9. It opens the door for you or your spouse to find comfort in another thus leading to affairs
10. It hurts and displeases God who is a God of reconciliation
